Round Valley Swingers Meet-n-Greet at 8 pm to midnight in Manville, New Jersey at Rhythms of the Night & J.P.'s Steakhouse

Round Valley Swingers

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Meet-n-Greet

Next Meet-n-Greet:

Saturday, July 24th - CANCELED DUE TO EXTREMELY POOR RSVP

Attention all sexy lifestylers:

— Come to meet fellow swingers from all over for a great night of fun times, good eats and plenty of fun. We encourage everyone to come and let loose! We've had many great groups at this MnG and we, Hoople & hotdi as the host couple hope to see many more! Its sure to be a HOT night and not just because it's warm inside!

About the group

— We are an Off Premises swingers club that hosts bi-monthly Meet-n-Greets in a central NJ nightclub. Couples and singles are invited to party and socialize in a no pressure atmosphere. THIS IS NOT A PLAY PARTY. In the early evening we chat, dance, eat and drink together. As the evening goes on SOME people may drift away to a nearby hotel. Most will stay the entire evening.

What is a Meet and Greet

— Meet and Greets aka M-n-G's are SOCIAL gatherings of like minded people for the purpose of meeting and greeting new people into the swinging lifestyle in a no pressure atmosphere. This M-n-G is for all interested in swinging, BBW's and BHM are especially welcome. Many at Meet-n-Greets are new to swinging, so it's not just the same people each time. Seasoned swingers go often too as they love the social aspects. There's no way of telling how many will show up. Ages range from 30's to 60+. Read the Meet-n-Greet Frequently Asked Questions for more details.

Singles guys are invited too!

— This is a public, 'no fee' Meet-n-Greet. M-n-G's are a great way for singles to meet each other too. Dress to impress and be sure to bring your best behavior.

Newbie advice! These M-n-G's are social events held in a public bar or lounge. Note to couples - the single men are never allowed to be pesty, ever! We have many watching them, some they can see, some they can't!

There is a $5/7/10 per person cover after ~8:30 pm (Rhythm's - not ours), so

Arrive on time - you'll meet more people as some hook up/leave early.

Hoople & hotdi
M-n-G hosts

Finding us/the group: Please, don't hesitate to approach us / the group. We'll be at the front oval bar on the left as you walk in. The left side away from the front door. By the front windows (neon signs). All the staff knows us, ask for Mike & Diane! Please do try to sign in - you can then get an optional 1 inch colored sticker/name-tag (below) so others will know you are a part of the group. Or sign in and then drift away to do your own thing!

A sign as you walk in directs you to the group --- ask people if they're with the 'RVS Yahoo group'.

Rhythms of the Night
aka J.P.'s Steakhouse
729 South Main Street
Manville, NJ 08835
908.707.8757

I-287 exit 12 - central NJ
13 miles from RT 1 and
NJ Turnpike aka I-95 exit 10

Rhythms is a upscale dance club (aka Discotheque) with two bars, a huge dance floor and live bands. If you enjoy an exciting nightlife atmosphere with great music, excellent food, dancing, laughing, and getting to know one another, then you're definitely going to love Rhythms. Classic rock bands are usually scheduled. A huge turnout expected, so arrive on time!! Between band sets a DJ will be spinning your favorite dance music.

The menu is All-U-Can Eat Salad Bar, Angus Steaks, Pastas, Chicken, Baby Back Ribs, Seafood and more. Chef Jose has 3-5 specials a week, all superb! Bar pizzas are available too. In short: Rhythms is a great place to hang out, make friends, drink, eat and dance.

Tiki Bar on back deck

There is a spacious back deck out back overlooking the Delaware & Raritan canal. A very pleasant retreat for quiet, extra privacy and cool breezes. It's also great for smokers to feel like they are still part of the activities.

Bar looking towards the front windows

Dining room and stage

To RSVP or see profiles of who's signed up go to the 'CLUB (Local) EVENTS' section on Swing Life Style aka SLS. Not a SLS member? Use this link: http://www.swinglifestyle.com/

Please don't call Rhythms for more information about these events as we run them, not them. Ask questions live in our chat room on the Tuesday before the Meet-n-Greet, 8 pm - 11 pm http://www.hooplenhotdi.us/chat/

Single guys read!!!

You MUST be on your BEST behavior! Treat all better than your own family.
No pressuring anyone to leave to get a room or to join in with a group. If they want to invite you, they will.
NO Stalking and NO Staring. Staring is anti-social behavior that only makes others uncomfortable.
You may introduce yourselves, but don't be a pest. If others want to continue the conversation they will.

For guys that don't 'get' the above we'll be happy to have the 6' 6" 300# bouncers come over and say hi!

If for some reason anyone experiences such behavior please let us know. See Above.

For the record we have NEVER had a problem with either the single men quantity or behavior in 6+ years of doing M-n-G's.

Directions: below is the view from South Main Street.

From North Jersey and New York City area
  Take NJ Turnpike South to Route 287 North
  Take I-287 Exit 12, bear left at the exit ramp end.
  Turn Left Weston Canal Road aka County 623.
  Travel to the end, approximately 3 miles.
  Near the end at a bend stay right around the curve.
  Road becomes Manville Causeway, ends at the light.
  RHYTHMS is on the right just after the bridge.

From south Jersey
  Garden State Parkway North to Route 287 North.
  Take I-287 Exit 12, bear left at the exit ramp end.
  Turn Left Weston Canal Road aka County 623.
  Travel to the end, approximately 3 miles.
  Near the end at a bend stay right around the curve.
  Road becomes Manville Causeway, ends at the light.
  RHYTHMS is on the right just after the bridge.

From west New Jersey area
  Take Route 78 East to Route 287 South
  Take I-287 Exit 12, bear left at the exit ramp end.
  Turn Left Weston Canal Road aka County 623.
  Travel to the end, approximately 3 miles.
  Near the end at a bend stay right around the curve.
  Road becomes Manville Causeway, ends at the light.
  RHYTHMS is on the right just after the bridge.

From Princeton and Trenton New Jersey area
  Take Route 206 North into Hillsborough, New Jersey.
  Turn Right onto Hamilton Road.
  Burger King & Charlie Browns on corner.
  At end of Hamilton Road turn left onto Somerset Courthouse Road (County 533)
  Road becomes South Main Street in Manville.
  RHYTHMS is on the Right past the traffic light.

Hotels nearby:

Ramada Inn in Somerset, NJ at exit 10 off of route 287. (see map below)
Days Inn and Red Bull Inn on Route 22 in Bridgewater, NJ. Hillsborough, NJ on RT 206 has a Days Inn.

Printable Maps

People from I-287 enter the parking lot at the far right BEFORE the South Main Street light.

At the Meet-n-Greet we do ask that you please be discrete when talking about the lifestyle or talking about getting a room as there are people there that are regulars and not in the lifestyle.

Last updated Tuesday, July 13, 2010